Too Old

I'm too old to be here.

I'm too old to be writing such angsty poetry about love and heartbreak and sadness. 

I should be turning a wrench and watching the news and sharing all my political beliefs on Facebook. 

I'm too old to be laughing at farts. 

I'm too old to be wearing basketball shorts when we go out to dinner. Too old to be shaving my head and growing a beard just to be different. 

I'm too old to be afraid of the dark, and afraid of engaging in small talk with the neighbors. 

I should be laughing with my teeth and offering firm handshakes and asking people about their families.

I'm too old to be stealing pens from waitresses just because they're Pilot G-2's and I really like Pilot G-2's. Although she did forget my second refill and she overcharged us by $2.

I'm too old to be listening to Drake. Too old to be dancing in front of the mirror. 

Too old for the heartbreak. Too old for the love. Too old for the sadness. 

I'm too old to roll my eyes when my mom won't get off the phone. 

I'm too old to do whatever it takes to avoid tying my shoes. 

I'm too old to be on Twitter. Follow me @WritersParis

I should be writing letters and answering the phone when people call and wearing socks with sandals. 

I'm too old for dreams. Too old to be real. Too old to tell the truth. 

I should be like the rest of them. Just punch my time card, laugh at the boss's jokes, and quit wondering what the hell I'm going to be when I grow up. 

I've already grown up. 

I've passed the age of first kisses and late night phone calls and my wife would never let me drive a motorcycle even if I wanted to.

I can't start smoking cigarettes now.

Imagine

When I was seventeen,

my mother said to me

"Don't stop imagining. The day that you do is the day that you die."

-Youth Lagoon

In my imagination:

I still think I'm the most important man on the planet. 

I'm taller in my mind than I am in the mirror. 

Sometimes I imagine other people watching my life like it was a movie. Why they don't change the channel, I have no idea. 

I think spiders are out to get me. 

I think there's a spider behind me right now. 

MIrrors are somehow scarier in the dark. 

In my imagination:

When I exhale, all the bad energy leaves my body. Same thing happens when I pee. 

Everyone at the pool is obsessed with what I look like with my shirt off. They sit around and laugh and have little conversations about me. 

Every blog post ever written was written about me. 

In my imagination:

Love is real. 

My parents like me more than my sister. 

The neighbors are having more fun than we are. 

Our hearts are bigger than our whole bodies. They hold everyone we love and all the places we've been, they're full of everything we ever wanted to be and all the good things that have happened to us and the bad things too. 

In my imagination I'm fast. 

All the guys I play basketball with on Tuesday and Wednesday nights want me to keep shooting. 

The moon is real. It's not just for poets and astronauts. It's for welders and school teachers. One day a bunch of us will live there and they'll even have stop lights.

In my imagination dead people go to their own funerals. 

I have eyes in the back of my head and I can see everyone talking about me. 

Everyone has more money and boats and square footage and iPhones and trucks than I have. 

Nobody poops. My wife doesn't poop and my parents don't poop and the President of the United States doesn't poop in the White House and Tom Hanks doesn't poop and Beyonce definitely does not poop. 

In my imagination our shadows still exist in the shade.

There's a booger in my nose and my zipper's down and there's something in my teeth and my breath is horrible and I have B.O. and sweat pits and everything else you can think of. 

I look intelligent and pensive when I bite my nails, not like a crackhead looking for a fix. 

That loud boom was an attack. 

It only rains when I wash my car. 

Everything I say is funny. 

All my dreams are interesting to other people. 

My fantasy football team is interesting to other people.

In my imagination all my moles are getting bigger. 

In my imagination we will live forever. 

In my imagination bad things will only happen to other people. 

I can understand things I can't hold in my hand. 

Silence

I turned 35 a few hours ago, so excuse me if I clear my throat too much. The fridge won't stop running and that's the way it is with me somehow.

Yeah, sure, I feel old. I remember being a teenager and being 24 and turning 16 and almost being 30 and yesterday. But imagine how my mom feels today. 

I keep thinking I'm going to have it all figured out tomorrow. If you play something for 35 years, you're supposed to be an expert, right? Well, I'm staying up all night looking for cheat codes. I'm plugging my headphones into my chest and this is all I hear: Noise.

There's soft music playing in three chambers of my heart. But that fourth chamber is full of fight music. The beat just dropped and everyone's losing their mind. This music controls me.

I can't fall asleep without listening to it, I can't write, I can't drive, I can't mow the lawn, do the dishes, get a cavity filled, walk through the grocery store, stand in an elevator, I can't dance. I can't go to funerals or weddings or have a conversation about anything. I can't think without listening to it. 

I must be afraid of silence. After a joke. After a poem. After a prayer.

Can I get an Amen? Hallelujah? I've earned enough courtesy laughs to open a museum. 

So turn up the music. Turn it up while you work and lose yourself in it. Because even though I'm 35, I'm still a work in progress. We all are. Until the day we stop running. 

Summertime Sadness

There's something magical about sitting in your backyard on a Sunday afternoon the moment church is about to begin. 

It's like walking out of class early. 

It's like calling in sick to work on a Monday morning. 

It's like walking around barefoot on the carpet after you've been wearing roller skates for two hours. 

My name is Kyle Nelson and I'm 100% human. I have 206 bones, 9 scars, and a heart that's way too close to my chest. I stay up too late and swear too much and I don't check the oil in my car as often as I should. 

I'm scared to go on the roof of my house. 

And here I am. Alone in my backyard. While my kids are wrecking the house and my wife is reading. While my neighbor is hocking loogies in his backyard and everyone else is driving to church. While my dad is watching TV in his dark, dirty house and my mom is making bread in her nice, clean one, listening to country music with her new husband. While my brother is in jail and my friends only exist on Facebook. While the world is reeling from shootings, accidents, earthquakes, and war. I sit in my backyard alone. 

And I'm just trying to capture it all. 

Before the clouds get too low and all we can see is white. Before we fall asleep and forget everything that happened today. The birds are making noise and I can't tell if it's a song or a cry for help. My neighbor hocking up phlegm says everything in my heart right now. 

Lana Del Rey is the one who told me about this sadness. This sadness in the middle of the summer, when everything is supposed to be fireworks and popsicles and suntans. But my heart is sunburned and drinking this Aloe Vera is starting to make me sick. 

Shit. 

I have nothing to be depressed about. I'm heathy and tan and married and free and tall and rich and poor and humble and tired and lazy and worried and I'm drinking a Pepsi right now. I'm turning 35 in a few days and maybe that's really what it all comes down to. 

I can feel Obama and Mitt in my veins and I wonder how long it can go on like this. My feet are numb and tingly and the birds are starting to make nests in my hair. I looked between the houses and saw the mountains for the first time. I finally realized that my trees are the biggest in the neighborhood and if I climbed them I could see the whole world from my backyard. 

But I'm afraid of heights. 

Besides, those branches could never hold me.